Letter from Lavender Haze (Nicole/Nikki)

Just Kevin

All I can be is just Me!
The IIconics
21,399
6,121
2,008
4,747.33
So I go to my mailbox today and lo and behold.. there's a letter from Nicole sitting there.

It's a 4 page letter.. I'll publish the 1st page here and I will message any people she had direct messages for on the other pages.

Anyway, the gist is that she is okay and still unable to get on the internet or access her phone at all.. and she doesn't know when or if she'll ever be able to. She's says she's happy but also sad because she misses all of us.

Here is the full 1st page..


Tagging everyone who was close to Nicole or showed concern..

@Red Rain Snowman Snowman @Will @Jeffry Fucking Mason Solid Snake Solid Snake S Seto-san GordonRamsayFox GordonRamsayFox Grievous II Grievous II
@baseballmm
That's all I know for now.
 
  • Like
Reactions: Snowman

Grievous II

C:Enter:###
Legend
12,152
11,849
2,033
12,819.68
So...why does seem more like the situation
a 16 year old would find themselves in?

Like I'm not trying to be nasty or anything...
but this entire situation seems very, very
strange to me.

Granted I'm Australian & once you turn
18 in this country your parents basically
say "You're on your own kid!" & kick you
out the door...but still.
 

Just Kevin

All I can be is just Me!
The IIconics
21,399
6,121
2,008
4,747.33
Uhh...care to fill me in on what happened? I'm guessing she came out as gay or something and was lost her phone as punishment?
Nothing like that..

She's basically stuck with incredibly overprotective parents.. and she's 26 years old. They found out that her and I were "talking" and took away her phone, thus taking away her connection to me and the internet... fortunately the Postal Service still exists.
 
  • Like
Reactions: Seto-san

Just Kevin

All I can be is just Me!
The IIconics
21,399
6,121
2,008
4,747.33
So...why does seem more like the situation
a 26 year old would find themselves in?

Like I'm not trying to be nasty or anything...
but this entire situation seems very, very
strange to me.

Granted I'm Australian & once you turn
18 in this country your parents basically
say "You're on your own kid!" & kick you
out the door...but still.
Unfortunately there are some parents who can't cut the cord and it can be mentally and socially damaging to the person who doesn't really get to fully develop and find who they truly are because they are constantly being swaddled. This is the situation Nicole finds herself in and as I've said many times before, the only person that can remedy this situation is Nicole.
 

GordonRamsayFox

Welcome to Hell
Commissioner
44,790
9,298
2,748
12,960.28
Okay, this is serious. There is some deep psychological abuse going on here.

This is the situation Nicole finds herself in and as I've said many times before, the only person that can remedy this situation is Nicole.
When someone is abused psychologically like this, it nearly becomes impossible for them to act on their own and escape from it. She needs someone to help her. The problem with this is, she would probably reject the help.

I was an atheist really for a while and I had a born again experience. I wear a cross, I go to church and religion is part of my life. However, it is NOT my life. When people surround and blanket themselves with strict religious adherence, there is some messed up things going on.

I don't mean to upset anyone, but you all know what I do for a living. I am very, very concerned about what I saw in that letter and what I know of the situation. I do not think she is doing "great." I think her parents probably force her to believe it and she takes it as gospel.

Nicole is a nice person. What her parents are doing to her is fucking sick beyond words. She is very impressionable, I think we all have seen that. She conforms to the people around her in order to get acceptance. She obviously does this with her parents. They put her in a situation that THEY believe is good for her and she accepts it because they make her accept it.

I mean... I don't have words. Please keep me updated.
 

Seto-san

Legend
Legend
21,587
8,205
2,213
10,397.48
Frist, I would like to say that she has way better handwriting than I do and therefore am jealous.

Second, it is good that she doing great and that she is fine, mainly it was quite odd not seeing her around which I miss.

Third, this proves the USPS isn't usually at all.

Fourth, I am somewhat triggered she used Wide Ruled paper
 

Beavie

WWEF's Resident Beav
LDW Management
28,301
9,846
2,233
6,422.46
I thought something was up with her not going on for some time, considering she just disappeared. I really hope she can find a way out of it. I'm 21 and I'm with my parents four months of the year and while they are caring, they are no means like what is seen there.
 
  • Like
Reactions: King Of Armageddon

Grievous II

C:Enter:###
Legend
12,152
11,849
2,033
12,819.68
I was an atheist really for a while and I had a born again experience. I wear a cross, I go to church and religion is part of my life.
Hey Jakey-Jake...doesn't that conflict with your "lifestyle choice"?

Just curious...

I don't wear any labels myself...apart from lazy, Australian prick
with an obsession for tall, blonde Amazons
.

And shorter redheaded Irish Amazons as well.

Shhh...
 
  • LOL
Reactions: Seto-san

GordonRamsayFox

Welcome to Hell
Commissioner
44,790
9,298
2,748
12,960.28
Hey Jakey-Jake...doesn't that conflict with your "lifestyle choice"?

Just curious...

I don't wear any labels myself...apart from lazy, Australian prick
with an obsession for tall, blonde Amazons
.

And shorter redheaded Irish Amazons as well.

Shhh...
There are plenty of gay Christians actually. And if you really read the Bible correctly, wearing jeans is outlawed. It's a sin to menstruate. So all the people who are Christians and wear jeans and menstruate are conflicting with their lifestyle choice.

In actuality, I go to an Episcopal church. It is very gay friendly. I disregard a lot of the Bible other than the Gospels and Jesus never said a bad word about gay people. The man had a three year ministry and never mentioned us one time, so my view is he has no problem with us.

But my actual beliefs are more Hindu than Christian. I enjoy going to church because I think the liturgy is wonderful and it's a good social thing.
 
  • Applause
Reactions: Seto-san

Grievous II

C:Enter:###
Legend
12,152
11,849
2,033
12,819.68
There are plenty of gay Christians actually. And if you really read the Bible correctly, wearing jeans is outlawed. It's a sin to menstruate. So all the people who are Christians and wear jeans and menstruate are conflicting with their lifestyle choice.

In actuality, I go to an Episcopal church. It is very gay friendly. I disregard a lot of the Bible other than the Gospels and Jesus never said a bad word about gay people. The man had a three year ministry and never mentioned us one time, so my view is he has no problem with us.

But my actual beliefs are more Hindu than Christian. I enjoy going to church because I think the liturgy is wonderful and it's a good social thing.
Interesting...

And I learned something today.

The Christians I know refer to me as a Pagan...
which is pretty funny.

I prefer the term "Pervert" Thank you very much.
 

GordonRamsayFox

Welcome to Hell
Commissioner
44,790
9,298
2,748
12,960.28
I was a pagan for a while and I still have some pagan beliefs. But the interesting thing about Hinduism is that it allows other religions to exist within it. So I consider myself a Christian under the umbrella religion of Hinduism.

And I am sorry for derailing your thread, Just Kevin Just Kevin . I'll delete the posts if you want me to and put it back on track.

I am glad Hazy thinks she is doing great. But honestly, I am very worried about her.
 

King Of Armageddon

The Dark Traveler
Legend
23,222
3,025
1,688
3,818.36
She needs someone to help her. The problem with this is, she would probably reject the help.
I did try my best to help her several times in private conversations and yes, I'll admit a few times that I gave her "tough love" but honesty to snap her out of her toxic reality and become more of a stronger, independent woman. I truly believe she is capable of overcoming this and many other situations but like Kevin said, she really have to be the one to push through this and hopefully with the good advice we all have provided her with she will. I hope she realizes what has happened as another example of why she has to GET OUT (no pun intended at all). I hate that she's going through this type of home environment and pray that she finds a solution out of this.
 
Last edited:

Snowman

Chillin' with the snowmies.
The IIconics
32,530
13,437
2,728
3,106.58
*applauds* Thank you for sharing this, Kevin.

We've all been worried about her... I remember the times she mentioned moving with her grandparents in TN, and I just froze up because it sounded like half of a sweet message and half a cry for help... This sounds like a whole mess of abuse, and while it seems like since her parents are so controlling she's been stuck in this little bubble and trying her best to find a way out somehow or another, why she always came across as playful as she did... It's hard to word, harder to explain, and thank you Kevin for fighting to get in touch with the gal. It sounds like she really needed this!
 

Log in

or Log in using